How To Get A Date

How Do You Get A Date?
Guys, how do you get a date? Easy answer: Go to where the women are. While that’s part of it, there are other steps you can take to increase your odds of getting a date.

Start by asking yourself what do you like to do? What groups or events could you attend based around things that you’re interested in, which would give you a better chance of getting a date with someone who is also interested in the same thing or something that is related to what you’re interested in.

Hanging Out in All The Right Places
Social events or groups where people get together every week or monthly allows you to get to know someone over time. Talking to women at social gatherings will not only increase your confidence approaching women but it can be a great way to get to know someone before you ask them out. It will also give you a chance to see how they respond to you as well.

Take the time to figure out how you’re going to ask a woman out. Whether it’s for dinner, a coffee shop meeting, or a movie, make sure you come up with a place where you can spend time with her without being interrupted by her friends or your friends.

If you’re into location-based dating or what’s known as GPS dating and mobile phone dating, you might already be hanging out in the right places just by being there. Mobile dating helps you find someone quickly who might be in or very close to the same place you’re at right now.

Prepare for The Date
There are plenty of things you can control when you go about getting a date and actually being on the date. Personal hygiene like grooming and good breath is a great start.

Don’t over due the cologne and wearing some nice clothes will help tremendously. Talking too much, talking too much about yourself, not being genuinely interested in her, never looking at her or hardly ever looking at her are all things you can control and work on when you are trying to get a date.

Put your man behaviors to the side like swearing, spitting, picking your nose, trash talking someone else, and scratching your privates are all things that probably won’t help you get a date.

Rejection
It’s okay if she turns you down for a date, it’s not the end of the world. You just gained some valuable experience that you can learn from and move forward with asking women out on a date.

Be okay with the rejection because you just never know what’s going to happen in the future. No need to go tellin’ everyone about how she stood you up or told you she didn’t want to go out with you. Don’t start trash talkin’ her either.

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