Where To Meet Women

There are plenty of places to meet women. Sometimes it’s just thinking up what to say next when you’re at that place.

A good way to practice is when you’re at one of those places, imagine there’s a woman you’d like to approach and talk to. Think of what you’d say to break the ice.

How would you keep the conversation going or know when to lighten up, close the conversation and move on? By practicing and walking through different scenarios, you can prepare yourself better for how to react and act, no matter what situation you’re in.

Here’s a list of some common and not so common places to meet women.

1. Group and Classes
Painting, cooking, learning a new language, dancing class, the local community college, the local university, etc. Very specialized groups are great places to meet single women. These situations can be a huge step just knowing you both like the same thing. That’s a great start.

Maybe you can cook for her sometime since you have to practice making that dish for your cooking class. Women love men who can cook.

2. The Store
What store? You mean, what stores? The grocery store, the hardware store, the sports store, the music store, the book store, etc. No matter what kind of store you’re in, if there’s a woman by herself, she might want your opinion on something she’s looking for, or you can ask her opinion on something you’re looking.

There are many stories and jokes that have come out of couples that met in a store. Stores are some of the best places to meet girls.

3. The Street
One of the most difficult places to meet women is “on the street”. Walking down a busy street in the business section of a city might not be the best place to stop and start talking to women, but you might have a better chance at an art show that’s being held outside downtown, or some historic landmark, an outdoor shopping mall, or on a boardwalk.

4. At Work
Meeting women you’re interested in at work can be difficult because, well, you work with them, and there might be a bunch of guys thinking the same thing you are. Whether you see them all the time or not, work can be a place with some challenges when you’re trying to meet women.

You don’t want to become the office guy who asks everyone out, making his way through the pack until you’ve got the right one. That could lead to a bad rep and other women not taking you seriously.

Take advantage of meetings, or going out to lunch or dinner as a group, can help you get to know someone better. Look for other events your company might hold like benefit walks, exercise classes and other group activities that employees can get involved with.

5. At a Religious Establishment
This is a big one because your religious affiliation can sometimes prevent couples from even getting to know one another. On the other hand, this is one step closer to knowing each other. With beliefs inline, there are many events that you can get involved with surrounding your place of worship.

6. Clubs and Bars
You might not be the best dancer but you never know who you’ll meet on the dance floor. While clubs and bars might not be the best places to meet women, they can be a place you can have fun dancing, and women might be a bit more open to dancing and talking, assuming you can be heard over the noise. This environment can also be a great place to make women laugh.

If you’re not the greatest dancer then watch and learn and practice. One mindset you can adopt if you don’t feel like you’re the best dancer is, “People aren’t laughing at you dancing, they’re laughing with you.” Now I know that might not be any consolation, but it helped me get through the awkwardness I felt, learning how to dance.

7. At The Gym
Still contemplating where to meet single women? Try the gym. Although some women at the gym are concentrating on exercising and don’t want to be hit on, there are some that might need help with their workout. Remember, you’re not “hitting” on them, you’re helping them.

Just make sure you don’t act all macho when approaching a woman at the gym, think about her needs and the interest that you want to show in helping her accomplish what she might need help with.

8. Standing in Line
Do you find yourself standing in line for various things in life? Buying tickets, getting a coffee, waiting to pay for something at the deli, etc. Standing in lines are great places to start a conversation with a woman.

9. Online
A lot of folks are online today, facebook, twitter, match.com, eHarmony, etc., you can meet women online in many places. It’s a bit more difficult to maneuver since you’re not face to face but with a lot of these sites there are meet-ups where you can meet local women face to face.

10. Games
There are plenty of women who love to compete. Why not find them at games – the football game where she’s sitting with a bunch of her friends, maybe some sports you can actually compete with women at. Look where you can meet local women by getting involved with outside sporting activities. Local gyms might post some of these events, the newspaper, online social media sites that talk about various local meet-ups.

11. Anyplace
With the information in this article and with some practice, you will start to feel more comfortable meeting women anywhere you’re at. This is part of socializing. Looking for opportunities to meet more women, approach a woman, and break the ice.

Think about what story you’d like to tell people on how you met your perfect woman? Think about how she would like to brag about where you met and the story she could tell her friends and family. This will help you think about where to meet women. Now get out there and meet the ladies.

Read more about other ways to meet women.

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Patrick November 10, 2010 at 11:20 pm

Not that I recommend it to meet women, however I’ve already met a great girl at a funeral, we just kept talking and talking and there was that spark between us that you could feel..

Like you said, we can meet women anywhere..

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Marivic September 10, 2011 at 5:26 am

Its easy to look for women, the problem is how you approach them .

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aurora17 December 7, 2011 at 6:32 am

My mom once told me that you can meet the woman of your life in churches, school but not on pubs. so she say it and partly I believe her. But if I just want flings, it’s easy for me to find one on bars right?

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Aditi Banerjee March 15, 2013 at 3:48 am

Hi Today world is changing women have a unique identity at every palace. You can meet local women for make friends,sharing ideas and interests with them. There are various websites which help to meet local women and hangout with them So visit mixinity. com to meet local women

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